Joseph “Joe” A. Stephano

September 8, 1938 - December 27, 2024

Our Lady of Charity Church

231 Upland Road

Brookhaven, PA 19015

Saturday 1/4, 9:00 am - 11:00 am

Mount Hope Cemetery

4010 Concord Road

Aston, PA 19014

Saturday 1/4

Our Lady of Charity Church

231 Upland Road

Brookhaven, PA 19015

Saturday 1/4, 11:00 am

Joseph A. Stephano

9/8/1938 – 12/27/2024

Age 86, longtime resident of Upland, PA.

Joe passed away peacefully with his family by his side on December 27, 2024.

Joe had a heart of gold that doesn’t come any bigger or brighter. Everyone loved his lively and humorous personality. He had immense love for his family and God.

Born and raised in West Philadelphia, he graduated from West Catholic High School and served in the U.S. Army from 1959 to 1961.

He was an active and longtime member of Our Lady of Charity Parish, helping with various church functions and serving as an usher.

Joe worked in data processing and mainframe computers for 45 years before his retirement in 2000, later finding a second calling in the funeral industry.

Joe gave endless hours serving many organizations. He was President of the Christopher Columbus Memorial Association, and a member of the Sons of Italy, Knights of Columbus, ARA Delco, and Ciao Delco, to name a few. In earlier years, he belonged to the Briarcliff Father and Sons Organization. He enjoyed his weekend retreats at the Men of Malvern Retreat House, attending for 51 consecutive years.

Joe maintained a rigorous exercise routine, working out 3 times a week at the gym, where he was affectionately known as “the mayor.” He delighted his gym friends with his many jokes and warm personality.

His pride in his family, respect for the military, and love of his hobbies were proudly displayed in his meticulously organized “man cave”, a space that reflected his passion and care for the things he cherished most.

He was the son of the late Joseph H. and Mary (Carroll) Stephano and was preceded in death by his siblings John and Mary.

He is survived by his loving wife of 65 years: Diane (Pasquella) Stephano; his children, Linda Bakey of Brookhaven, Theresa Campuzano of Upper Chichester, Donna (Gary) Butterworth of Aston, and Robert (Kathleen) Stephano of Garnet Valley; 9 grandchildren, Thomas (Kimberly), Laura, Gina, Joseph, Carlee, Casey, Ryan, Ethan and Megan; 1 great-grandchild, Emilia. Also survived by his sister, Dolores Tanz.

In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made in his memory to Men of Malvern Retreat House.

Relatives and friends are invited to his Viewing Saturday, January 4, 2025; 9:00 – 11:00 a.m. followed by his Funeral Mass 11:00 a.m. ALL IN CHURCH at Our Lady of Charity Church 231 Upland Rd., Brookhaven, PA 19015. Interment Mount Hope Cemetery.

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Joseph A. Stephano 9/8/1938 – 12/27/2024 Age 86, longtime resident of Upland, PA. Joe passed away peacefully with his family by his side on December 27, 2024. Joe had a heart of gold that doesn’t come any bigger or brighter. Everyone loved his lively and humorous personality. He had immense love for his family andContinue Reading

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I just learned of Joe's passing and I am truly sorry. I knew Joe from OLC. Always greeted you with a smile and corny joke. My deepest condolences to you and your family.

Diane and family, We're so sorry to hear about the passing of Joe. He was a truly a nice person. When going to church he always greeted us with a joke of the day. He always put a smile on our face. He will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers, Don and Angel

My deepest condolences for everyone . I'm so sorry for your Loss. I remember meeting Joe he was such a kind gentleman with a wonderful sense of humor. You are all in my thoughts and prayers as Joe enters pur Father's Divine Kingdom in Beautiful Eternity where we will all see each other once again . Sending you so much Love & Prayer as you go thru this journey. God Bless you with continued Grace & Strength. Thinking of All of You .

I will miss my wonderful cousin. You were the best. You were so proud of your wonderful family. You always had a new joke to tell us. My heart goes out to Diane, Donna, Linda , Terri, Robert, and all your wonderful grandchildren. Cathy

Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.

I will certainly miss your daily jokes and Hank’s excitement when you would give him a treat. He still watches for you every day as I do. You were a wonderful neighbor of 25 years and I’ll miss seeing you. Your family and friends are very lucky to have you as a Guardian Angel. May you rest in peace.

Joe was an extremely funny guy with a heart of gold. He always put a smile on my face, with his humorous personality! Joe you will truly be missed and always remain in our hearts! Mary Lou

Joe was a great guy and always at every Knights of Columbus function. You can always count on him showing up and helping out. Even with his decline in health, he was still there helping out. He will be greatly missed!

Joe and I shared much time as CA Captains and Associate Captains at St. Joseph's in the Hills (Malvern Retreat). Joe always had his corny jokes and one liners which kept us laughing. He was truly dedicated to the Malvern retreats and did everything for the men on retreat. He was a true friend and mentor to me and I will miss him. My hope is to meet him again one day in Paradise.

To the Stephano family- our condolences and sorry for your loss. Scott, Christine, Christopher, Scott

Please accept our deepest condolences on the passing of our dear friend Joe. He was truly a remarkable person, always going out of his way to help others. Joe will forever hold a special place in our hearts. He will be missed. Joe & Rose Vaccone

Joseph was always a kind man who loved to make me laugh with his jokes. My condolences to his wife Diane, daughters Terry and Donna.

A gentleman nice person always glad to see him Sorry for your pain sincerellBsrt Cavanagh Sr.

Joe sat next to me at 4:00 o’clock Mass every Saturday for many years …He was one of the nicest, kindness,; and funniest gentleman I knew ! He Always made us laugh with his jokes !! His love for God was Beautiful ! He adored his Family and showed much love toward his friends too!! He served his Nation ( Thank You Joe for your service ) RIP ❤️ You will be missed by me and many others ! God Bless you,, Joe I know you went straight up to Heaven i

My deepest condolences to the family and loved ones!! Joe was an absolute blessing. I will cherish his memories forever. I met Joe at the gym over 20 years ago. He was the mayor of the gym and he knew everyone. He will be missed.

So many memories but a great gentleman and neighbor and a man who loved his family and community of upland so much. Will be greatly missed.

Joe was pure and genuine and a good friend and neighbor. Loved talking to him and just did have a heart of gold who loved his family and community of upland. Will be missed so much.

RIP Joe…..will miss our Facebook communications.

Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.

Dear Linda, Teri and family, I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your dear dad. He was a fun loving guy who always made me feel so comfortable. I’m sure he was a terrific dad! He loved you all so very much! Thinking of you all at this time. Sending thoughts and prayers. Theresa Mignogna Mitchell

Joe was the kindest man so full life and love for everyone he met always greeted with a smile and handshake & a famous joke he had been waiting to make me laugh i remember Joe & my dad at the malvern retreat would sit talking in lower mcshain until all hours of the night & then meet up in the morning for Coffee & donuts Joe will never be forgotten we all love you Joe rest in paradise god bless your soul and family always and forever

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Joseph “Joe” A. Stephano

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